• Them: "But you're smiling!"
• Them: "But you aren't skinny enough to have an eating disorder!"
• Them: "But I can't see any scars! Your wrists are clear!"
• Them: "You are just shy!"
• Them: "You just have an overactive imagination"
• Them: "But you don't have any real sexual experience! You can't tell!"
• Them: "It's all in your head!"
• Them: "You choose to be this way!"
• Them: "That's not real!'
• STOP. STOP IT NOW.